tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post6768735140263648269..comments2023-11-02T10:26:12.388-04:00Comments on Rachel Olsen: Aging brings a GiftRachel Olsenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14666181671944102358noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-46561605598445163322011-08-05T19:21:51.531-04:002011-08-05T19:21:51.531-04:00What a great perspective on aging. I am trying ha...What a great perspective on aging. I am trying hard to embrace my age and let myself be who I am with all the signs of the 50s appearing daily. It is really difficult not to be sad when I see the wrinkles, feel my tummy against my belt, and try to dress to disguise what gravity is doing to me. I find myself walking around mirrors instead of looking into them. I know, however, that I am God's creation and he loves me just the way I am, lumps bumps and all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-34995904171264846052011-08-05T12:47:05.158-04:002011-08-05T12:47:05.158-04:00I'm loving hearing everyone's comments and...I'm loving hearing everyone's comments and perspective on this.Rachel Olsenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14666181671944102358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-47964109798611134142011-08-05T11:53:07.350-04:002011-08-05T11:53:07.350-04:00Rachel,
Thank you for this post. I struggled when ...Rachel,<br />Thank you for this post. I struggled when I turned 30 and again at 40. I'm now 42 and feel like God has been working on me for the past couple of years. It struck me as I read your post that there's a reason He waited till my 40s to lead me into unfamiliar territory. I look back and know I'm different now than in my 20s & 30s. And that's a good thing. :)<br /><br />Blessings,<br />LauraLaurahttp://www.laurarath.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-31966225557366471092011-08-05T10:05:24.428-04:002011-08-05T10:05:24.428-04:00I am 64 years old now and loving every minute of i...I am 64 years old now and loving every minute of it. I guess you would say I am embracing aging. Much less self doubt. Much less business. Much more time for doing what I want. More time for my chuck and I to just be togehter. AND I love being NaNa to our 9 grandchildren. I never thought this time of my life would be so good. When I look in the mirror I see an aging body and some grey hair but that is OK. I am beyond the point of worrying about looking like a model - I never did. Thanks soo much for this post. It gave me a chance to list some wonderful blessings and believe me there are a lot more.agape13chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16272224861589044322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-73351690839726446872011-08-04T22:54:57.514-04:002011-08-04T22:54:57.514-04:00Hey Rachel and other posters here. I turned 45 yes...Hey Rachel and other posters here. I turned 45 yesterday. I can so identify with what your friend said. I am in a totally different place since I entered my forties from where I used to be. <br />Every age has its advantages and disadvantages I've heard somewhere. Must be true. Nevertheless, whatever our ages along this spectrum of life, let us praise God and give thanks everyday.!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-50063447845636036462011-08-04T21:20:32.626-04:002011-08-04T21:20:32.626-04:00Great post. I think it was in my 40's that my...Great post. I think it was in my 40's that my body started breaking down and now that I'm 70 I'm just happy to have made it thus far. My husband will be 70 next week and he has started having some problems. I'm just looking for Jesus to come back anytime and then I'll have a new body. I've learned a lot since I started blogging right after the study you did on the women of the body and have learned so much from people I have come in contact with. My faith is stronger than ever. You just don't ever give up. There's a glad reunion day just ahead.<br />AliceE.From the Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06612517670775886165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-11901356213298530692011-08-04T20:07:16.964-04:002011-08-04T20:07:16.964-04:00I am slightly over 60 and it is true...other than ...I am slightly over 60 and it is true...other than my body telling me at times that I am not 30, I don't "feel" my age. I feel more confident and on the right path much more that when I was younger. I am not doing the "grey" thing, however...I have to draw the line somewhere :) Sue RAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-52538499616911229062011-08-04T11:07:00.668-04:002011-08-04T11:07:00.668-04:00Rachel,
I loved this post. Next year I will vent...Rachel,<br /> I loved this post. Next year I will venturing into my forties and really for the most par...I dread it. For some reason I worry about time I have wasted and not being as far along as God wants me to be. The other part of me cannot wrap my mind around the fact that I am not mommy and daddys little girl anymore. I am the age they were when I came into the world.<br /><br />I do think its true that the older we get the more we are ready....to embrace the things in life that are most important and let go of what isn't. I look forward to seeing what God has in store....<br /><br />Thanks for the post....<br />:)<br />JulieJuliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11739561424325626557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-80161426781695399772011-08-04T10:41:46.639-04:002011-08-04T10:41:46.639-04:00I will pray for you today, Darlene.I will pray for you today, Darlene.Rachel Olsenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14666181671944102358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-10184257702057915002011-08-04T10:35:16.361-04:002011-08-04T10:35:16.361-04:00Hi Rachel, loved the post today. I so enjoyed my ...Hi Rachel, loved the post today. I so enjoyed my forties, lost a lot of the self-confidence and doubt BUT then a major disappointment happened right before I turned fifty and a lot of the doubts came back. Fighting them, I so want to enjoy my life again and be who He wants me to be.<br />DarleneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-27003893748871798502011-08-04T10:31:10.527-04:002011-08-04T10:31:10.527-04:00So glad you and Beth confirm that covering up my g...So glad you and Beth confirm that covering up my gray with sparkly blonde and low lights of latte brown is OK! :)<br /><br />Rachel, as always, your beautiful words are like sweet morsels to my soul.<br /><br />I am embracing being 40-something (dare I admit - closer to 50 than 40 at this point!). I do, however, confess that I don't heart the wrinkles and the sags. But I am thankful and I feel I have worked hard to earn each one! :)<br /><br />Thank you, Rachel, for a beautiful, wise post.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />SharonSharon Sloanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10578787930211780461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-69353869933811047732011-08-04T09:58:55.319-04:002011-08-04T09:58:55.319-04:00Wise friend you have there, Rachel. I do pray tha...Wise friend you have there, Rachel. I do pray that wisdom finds its way to me as I walk this 40-something trail. I am ready to "shed self-consciousness and doubt" and move on to the best my 40's has to offer. I'm finding I'm in good company, though, with great women like you and many others God continues to place in my path to walk along with me. <br /><br />Great post today and starting it with "Here's the thing" didn't throw me off one bit. I suppose my 40-something brain was following right along - LOL : )<br /><br />Have a great day!<br />PamPamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06789674304552778803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-22125630772302842622011-08-04T09:42:22.773-04:002011-08-04T09:42:22.773-04:00Very cool, D'Anne. I love your last sentence: ...Very cool, D'Anne. I love your last sentence: "While the world prepares to set us on the shelf, God is gearing up to use us in greater ways if we let Him!"Rachel Olsenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14666181671944102358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-77958206915511368572011-08-04T09:35:22.612-04:002011-08-04T09:35:22.612-04:00Loved this, Rachel! My forties have been awesome s...Loved this, Rachel! My forties have been awesome so far, both in what your friend said--shedding some of that self-consciousness and feeling more comfortable with yourself--and in realizing I've reached a point in my life where I've gleaned some wisdom to share. I really didn't believe this last part until God sat me next to a precious 20 something boy on the plane ride home from She Speaks this year and we had an amazing conversation about life and spiritual growth. While the world prepares to set us on the shelf, God is gearing up to use us in greater ways if we let Him!Anne Mateerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11330467138236037032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-56256313118652062972011-08-04T09:18:15.839-04:002011-08-04T09:18:15.839-04:00Tamara, there's nothing wrong with covering th...Tamara, there's nothing wrong with covering those stray grays ... Beth Moore even says so. :)Rachel Olsenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14666181671944102358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-81651356343452099262011-08-04T09:12:19.992-04:002011-08-04T09:12:19.992-04:00What an interesting post... I turn 35 this fall, a...What an interesting post... I turn 35 this fall, and I find myself at battle within my head. What have I accomplished? Am I holding up physically as well as others? Have I done enough for the Lord? Is it time to cover this gray that keeps multiplying in my dark brown hair? I think in my 30's I still catch myself comparing my life to other women, a notion that I would be glad to shed in any decade!!! In a way, I look forward to the next decade of my life ~ older children and a different phase of life for me. My fear lies in me not becoming who God purposed me to be... that's the tough part for me! Moving in His direction, not focusing on the petty parts. You know, like covering the gray...tamblairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12123449356888891015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-33377200728979560582011-08-04T09:05:29.470-04:002011-08-04T09:05:29.470-04:00Listen, that abiliy to randomly forget or omit stu...Listen, that abiliy to randomly forget or omit stuff can be a pro as much as a con! :)Rachel Olsenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14666181671944102358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-61218033209506834422011-08-04T09:04:31.705-04:002011-08-04T09:04:31.705-04:00Hi Michelle,
The school system - at least these ...Hi Michelle,<br /> <br />The school system - at least these days were I'm at - tends to be dominated by young teachers. Still I can't believe you are the oldest in your dept. at just 43.<br /><br />Those younger English teachers at your school are blessed to have a godly mentor in their midst!<br /><br />Gracious yes, it is HOT here. And the heat is keeping me in a continuous state of inelegance. :)Rachel Olsenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14666181671944102358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-16930373039702154272011-08-04T08:59:09.984-04:002011-08-04T08:59:09.984-04:00Meant to say NOT as bad as I thought! See what I m...Meant to say NOT as bad as I thought! See what I mean about getting older - I just randomly omit stuff!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02395138021043609752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451874990236641064.post-11112462614039905062011-08-04T08:57:47.892-04:002011-08-04T08:57:47.892-04:00Rachel,
I love your post today! I am a high school...Rachel,<br />I love your post today! I am a high school English teacher who heads back on Monday!! We had several teachers retire from our department this past year and the realization struck me that I am now the oldest teacher in my department (at 43)!!! ARGH!!! So to answer your question.. I dread it when I look in the mirror sometimes, which prompted this post on my blog last year :http://gigiandallherpeeps.blogspot.com/2010/03/day-filled-with-beauty.html<br />But I embrace it on days when I hear younger women stressing about things I used to and I realize it was as bad as I thought or I can share with them those bits of advice shared with me at their age. I truly am more comfortable with myself at this age than I ever have been before and the older I become the more I yearn for heavenly things and not earthly things. I hope He is giving me some wisdom I am always asking for! Thank you so much for sharing today. Is it as hot where you are as it is in Louisiana? We hit 109 yesterday!Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02395138021043609752noreply@blogger.com